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    South Asians for Black Lives
    Farzana Rahman
    • Jun 22, 2020
    • 4 min

    South Asians for Black Lives

    A South Asian-American Therapist's Thoughts on Being an Ally The past month has brought forward many mixed emotions. Hopelessness. Anger....
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    What it means to "grieve" a postponed or cancelled wedding
    Landis Bejar, LMHC
    • Apr 24, 2020
    • 3 min

    What it means to "grieve" a postponed or cancelled wedding

    First things first: Why is this even important? The first thing we need to talk about is the importance of acknowledging all feelings in ...
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    The Exquisite Pain of Covid Cancellations
    Aleigh Huston-Lyons
    • Apr 23, 2020
    • 3 min

    The Exquisite Pain of Covid Cancellations

    AisleTalk Associate Therapist Aleigh Huston-Lyons writes about the experience of cancelling her wedding amid the Covid-19 pandemic throug catch my breath. Knees pressed against my chest, I squeezed my head in my hands like I was trying to pop a balloon. I willed the disappointment to condense into something smaller, more manageable. I felt a tiny gnashing monster inside my chest, attempting with all its minuscule might to push its way out. My partner sat beside me, rubbi
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    Self-Care Lessons from a Bridal Therapist
    Landis Bejar, LMHC
    • May 8, 2019
    • 5 min

    Self-Care Lessons from a Bridal Therapist

    Self-care is popping up all over the place lately – everywhere from our newsfeeds to our social calendar; our board meetings to our medic...
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    Therapy Theme no. 101: Defending something you never intended to defend.
    Landis Bejar, LMHC
    • Mar 12, 2019
    • 5 min

    Therapy Theme no. 101: Defending something you never intended to defend.

    Somewhere in the second year of my long-term relationship with the person who would later become my husband, his desires around the idea ...
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    Couples therapy? Tell me more...
    Landis Bejar, LMHC
    • Feb 20, 2019
    • 4 min

    Couples therapy? Tell me more...

    Lots of people have been asking me what couples therapy is all about lately. I wanted to share this piece I wrote for My Wellbeing* that ...
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    9 Things Everyone Should Know When You’re Going Wedding Dress Shopping
    Landis Bejar, LMHC
    • Nov 29, 2018
    • 5 min

    9 Things Everyone Should Know When You’re Going Wedding Dress Shopping

    Getting ready to hit the wedding dress salon for the most special outfit you’ll ever buy? Joining a bride who’s ready to #SYTTD?! Yay! It...
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    Wedding planning is stressful, let’s talk about it: 
The Birth of AisleTalk
    Landis Bejar, LMHC
    • Oct 17, 2018
    • 3 min

    Wedding planning is stressful, let’s talk about it: The Birth of AisleTalk

    When planning a wedding, brides (AND GROOMS) go through A LOT that no one warned them about. Do you know how I know? I went through it to...
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